hollister can kiss my keester

So the other day i hit hollister. not my usual type of store, but i had heard their t-shirts are the nicest ever. my sweet husband lives in t-shirts and likes nice ones…but will not buy himself anything that was not on the old navy clearance rack for 6.99 or less!

my impressions of the uber-tendy store:

1. loud. too loud. my poor charlotte was freaking out. the sweet seconds between songs were only an evil prelude to louder songs. i am not an old fogey who must have elevator music, but this was ridiculous.

2. also dark. very very dark.

3. and they spray some sort of surfy air-freshener. it smells nice, but is just not right for migraine sufferers like me.

4. I took a little peek at the women’s t-shirts. they only go to size large (which would, by the way, fit kate moss on a  salt retention day perfectly). apparently hollister girls aren’t allowed to be chubby. the boys are though, since dude’s t-shirts (yes, they call them dudes) do go to XL.

5. really though, nobody at hollister is allowed to have any fat whatsoever. i bought the man a large. he is 6″1, about 170lbs, and usually a medium is baggy on him-but required due to his height. the hollister  large is too small on him. now i have to go back to hell hollister to exchange it.

6. since hollister is so damn small, there are old size extra-small and  smalls left. finding a medium is like a needle in a haystack. finding a large is like a broken needle in a haystack. extra large? a grain of sand in a haystack. it took me an hour to find the large one got my man. i am not looking forward to returning to find an extra large.

5. hollister is hell for strollers. it is a big store, but for some reason it is separated into about 8 tiny, crowded wood panelled rooms…all with the same stock. i got stroller locked about 8 times, and at one point curled up in a corner to cry a little,  convinced i would never escape and would die there. i was so lonely i tried to make friends with a beach ball, but he ignored me to talk to the skinny girls.

7. in spite of my own feelings, a lot of (young, skinny, beautiful) people really like hollister. so much that 10 of us waited line at the registers for about 20 minutes. for these 20 minutes, there was actually not a cashier at the registers. at yet we waited, without even grumbling about customer service. had i been shopping for myself, i would not have bothered. but for my man, i’ll do anything.

8 . the t-shirts are the thickest, softest, ever. I actually want to keep the too small large one, and just snuggle with it at night. is that wrong?

Oh well. it was an adventure, and now i get to go back and exchange…unless i put the man on a diet, which i just may do to avoid returning hollister forever!

disclaimer-if you are from hollister, don’t hate me. i, a 36 year old chubby mom to 2,  am not your target market anyways….and if my girls do not end up chubsters like their mom, i will allow them into your skinny clothes haven and encourage them to buy your soft as silk t-shirts. i promise.

*sorry for the bad typing, this post was brought to you by my left hand,  a nursing babe in arms, and a computer that freezes between every word.

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cloth diapering, old school

I wanted to update my cloth diapering guide a little. I’ve already shown you some cool modern fluff that makes it look as easy as ’sposies with a washer…now I want to share some old school tricks: pre-folds.

Prefolds are like flat diapers, but have an extra absorbent centre panel, so you don’t have to fold extra layers in the centre where more absorbency is needed. Hence the name pre-folds.

They need a cover, and still need some folding. here, I will show you two of  my favorite techniques:

snappied pre-fold, with a fleece cover

I don’t have a name for this fold, but basically I lay the pre-fold under the baby, with the top of it at navel level. I then fold the pre-fold in at both sides, pull it up through her legs, and re spread it over her belly. Pull the wings over, snappi (google it), and done. I find this method quite quick, and pretty good at holding in messes of all sorts:

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tri-folding in a PUL cover

Basically I take the pre-fold, fold it in three, and lay it in a cover (this is a bummis whisper wrap), lay the baby over the whole thing, fold over the top to fit, and do up the cover.  This is quick and easy. Not great for runny breast-fed poop, but a great pee diaper. It is also pretty trim and works well under clothes. It is also a great way to use pre-folds that your baby has grown out of and no longer can be folded around baby.

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However you use a pre-fold, make sure to tuck all of the diaper under your cover of choice, or else you will get leaking.

I don`t know much about pre-fold sizing or shopping, since I got my 3 (infant sized, Indian pre-fold) on a swap board. I do know you should always look for diaper service quality pre-folds. Google pre-folds to learn more about what to buy.

Since we are going old-school today, here is an adorable fitted diaper that does nt have snaps. I usually use a snappi, but this day I decided to try something different:

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6 months!

Yup, Charlotte is 6 months old today.  Here is her picture:

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and last month, as always:

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Actually, in honour of 6 months, lets do them all from 4-1:

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Yup. She just keeps on growing.

Charlotte is doing great. Reaching and grabbing for everything, sitting up well, and even trying to crawl a bit. She continues to thrive on  mommy’s milk,  also she has had a few tastes of avacado, which she likes sometimes-mostly smooshing between her fingers.

She seems on the verge of popping a tooth. She is leaky all over, gumming everything, and woke up 5 times last night. Yup, 5.

The girl started gymnastics camp yesterday, and is having fun and making friends.

As for Canada…I’ll just say HAPPY BIRTHDAY a day early!

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today’s pics

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(continuing to have issues with formatting and focussing camera. oh well)

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Baby’s got a new seat!

*this is actually a post I did for a car-seat related bulletin board, so some things are sorta assumed.  I am cross posting here since I know some of my readers are into car-seats, and some of them are getting into car-seats, and some of them should be into car-seats, and some of them just like to look at my car-seats. Please feel free to ask any questions

I was inspired by the clinic I did Saturday and a lot of car-seat discussion recently to finally install the TrueFit.  Whew, lots of work. This involved moving ODD’s Radian from middle to outboard, moving the bucket to DH’s car (which needed a seat-belt with locking-clip install) and then getting to the TrueFit.

It was not an easy install. Getting to the belt-path under the seat cover, finding the UAS straps at the back of the seat and getting them to the right place, installing the seat, and then getting the seat covered again is tough.

I did end up with a rock solid install though, but I needed 3 pool noiodles to get a 45 degree angle. DD is 6 months and has good head control, so I probably could have had it a bit more upright, but I feel better with 45 degrees until she is a bit closer to a year.

I can get to the harness adjuster easily (I know this is a problem for some) but am not sure I’ll be able to when it has less of a recline.

It is a great fit in my Saturn Ion without the headrest, but will have to be a lot more upright when I need to put it on.

Pics:

My 17lbs 6 month 26 inch baby (with and without headrest):

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My 6 year old, 43 lb, 42 inch SK graduate:

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The recline (weird angle in the picture, but it is 45 degrees) :

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the lock-offs:

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The harness adjuster:

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my baby!!

my big baby graduated from senior kindergarten yesterday. sob. okay..I seriously think the only think sillier than a kindergarten graduation ceremony is a daycare graduation ceremony, but I still got all teary-eyed with pride!!

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My ETSY Wishlist

awesome extra large silver octopus earrings

Silver Tree Necklace

Secret Bracelet

SilverHeart Ankle Bracelet  - OOAK

Big Ol Owl Womens Tshirt

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anything different here?

how about here?

Yup, earrings! Finally!

When she was 4, I told her she could get it done whenever she was ready. For 2 years she said she would NEVER do it, was scared it would hurt. Fine.

Yesterday at dinner she announced she wanted to. So today we did it! She was awesome;  got a bit scared at the last second, but went through with it…then when they pierced she gave one big OUCH and than announced that it wasn’t so bad. She looks so cute and I am so proud of her. We already had plans (and a baby on my back!) so we could not make it a whole special mommy-daughter day like I had always thought it would be, but we did get smoothies on the way to my friend’s place.

It is funny, whenever I tell people I don’t pierce babies ears and wait until they are over 4 and ask, and that my 6 year old wont do it and says she never will…they think it is a reason to do ears when babes are too young to refuse and are  surprised I did not do otherwise with the baby because of my experience with the girl, but whatever! I don’t agree…but I was starting to wonder if my girl ever would do it. I have multiple piercings and love earrings, so even though I was okay with her never doing it, it would be a  tad disappointing.

I am so glad I waited. It was a sweet special day for my daughter and I, and the excitement and pride she felt well outweighed the pain. I actually got mine done at 6 as well. I remember how special it was to pick out earrings and have all my friends and family complimenting me for days, and how proud i was. I don’t remember the pain. I am glad I gave my DD the same experience and she will have the same memories!

The time came afterall! yeah!!

p.s. sorry for the crap pictures, i could not get a clear picture if my life depended on it!

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Favorite new recipe

this very casual (no measurements)  Curry Recipe I invented is perfect for leftovers.

1) Put on rice

2) Blend or whisk together 1 can of coconut milk, a blob of curry paste, some salt, some pepper, some sugar, and a spoonful (tablespoon or teaspoon, whatever) of tomato sauce or tomato paste.

3) Cook some fish, or chicken, or meat. If you aren’t off soy, tofu would work too.  Saute some fresh veggies, whichever you want, while you are at it. Feel free to skip the cooking and sauteing, and unwrap some leftover fish, or chicken, or meat or veggies from the fridge. Also feel free to grab a handful of frozen veggies instead of cooking fresh ones. Don’t worry what leftovers were cooked in, the curry sauce is strong enough to mask any previous flavouring.

4) Once well mixed, throw the curry sauce in a pot (saucepan? What’s the diff?) on a medium high stove-top. Drop in your leftover or  freshly cooked fish, or chicken, or meat, and your freshly cooked, leftover, or frozen veggies. Consider dropping in some chick peas as well.  Let it all get nice and hot, mixing when you remember.

5) Serve over the rice.

Yummy! Too bad the girl wont eat it, but she will eat the stuff over the rice minus the sauce, so it works for her too!

Leftovers taste great the next day. Just pre-mix before refrigerating.

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My official guide to cloth diapering

This post is brought to you by a comment on a friend’s blog, and postings on 2 bulletin boards. The three conspired to create, with some editing, a comprehensive posting on Cloth Diapering…AKA my new obsession. I am too lazy to do links, you can easily find any of the diapers I discuss on google.

Here it goes, the diapers I use, and when I use them:

1) Pockets.  There are a cover with a pocket in it, that you stuff with an absorbant insert. Mine are BumGenius 3.0, I use these at night only, with a superdo insert.  Other popular pocket brands are Fuzzibuns, Happy Heineys and Haute Pockets.  Many pockets come in one size, so they adjust for about 8-35lb babies, which is very conveneint.

2) AIOs. All In One’s.  A diaper that has it all…use it like a sposie, then throw it in the laundry. I use these for going out and to keep in my diaper bag, since they are easy to use, waterproof and all one piece.  These are also all the man will use. I like Drybees, Swaddlebees, BumGenius Organics, Piddles Poddles (these are all in twos, since the soaker snaps in), and Mommy’s Touch. Many of thsde have a pocket under the absorbant part so you can add an extra insert for added absorbancy if needed.  Here are some AIO reviews.

3) Fitteds. These look kinda like an AIO, but not water-proof. Very absorbant. I use them at home and for short outtings-with covers, of course.  Some of my favorites are GoodMama, Muttaquin Baby, Bububebe, Northern Baby, and Bagshot Row Bamboo. The adorable dipe in the post two down is a fitted, from Northern Baby. OK, here is is again:

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4) Pre-folds. These are like flat diapers but have a thicker more absorbant part in the center, and need a cover. They can be folded and laid right in the cover, or folded around the baby in a diaper shape  (like old school diapers), fastened with a pin or snappi (google it) and covered.   I only have a few pre-folds I got when swapping diapers with someone, and I usually use them for short periods-for example if I get the  dressed shortly before we are going out, and she needs a fresh diaper.  I always change her diaper right before we go out, so I put on a pre-fold for that short time period.

 

Now, a bit about covers:

I use 3 types of covers over my fitteds and pre-folds:

1) PUL. These are waterproof covers that snap or velcro on. Thirsties, Gen-y and Bummis are good ones. They work well, but look…like a cover. I do not use them out of the house much since it is too mcuh effort; to change a diaper with this sort of cover you need to take off the pants, take off the cover, change the diaper, and replace cover than pants. At home, I just use the cover.

2) Fleece. Fleece is naturally water-repellant. They make nice covers since they are cute enough to wear as bottoms. They can be a soaker (covers just the diaper) shorties (like shorts) or longies (like pants). The colourful striped pants most of you have seen here are fleece longies. Yeah, these:

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3) Wool. Wool is a my favorite. Like fleece, they can be soakers, shorties or longies. They are absolutely adorable,  and naturally absorbant and waterproof.  They can be expensive (Luve, Wild Child Woolies, Sustainable Babyish) but ETSY has a lot of fabulous crafty people (I hate craftly people) that recyle wool sweaters into affordable and adorable wool covers.

I use wool mostly over fitted diapes. The fitted absorbs the liquid and then the wool absorbs it once it starts coming out of the fitted, and then the wool holds onto it due to lanolin. How bullet-proof a wool cover is depends on the wool. Interlock or thick tightly knit (or felted) wool is great. Looser knit lighter wool needs to be kept a better eye on, but I still find it as leakproof as pockets. When it gets too full, I can feel that it is damp through the outside, but it doesn’t really leak or get onto anything (though I guess at this point it would if I did not change it soon).

I do need to lanolize every few weeks to keep them working. I just soak them in a sink full of warm water, with a bit of baby wash and a drop of melted lanolin, then wring lightly, and lay flat to dry. The amazing thing  about wool is, because wool is naturally anti-bacterial, I only need to wash every few weeks (unless poop gets on them!). When it feels damp I just hang it up, and when it drys, no smell!

I use mostly wool and fleece covers.  I use them over fitteds at home, and then when I go out I usually change to an AIO. and use the wool or fleece over top. I like the extra protection of a waterproof AIO, out of the house, and the wool or fleece looks great AND ensures that even if the AIO leaks or wicks, it will not be a problem. The blue pants with the flowers I recently posted are wool longies. Yeah, these:

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Here is a wool soaker:

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People always want to know how gross cloth diapering is

Not so much.  Reality is, if you are dealing with a baby, you are dealing with baby shit. Pee too. I have far less blow outs with cloth than I did with sposies though, and I do not find it gross at all .  But I also do not find the diva cup (google it) gross, so maybe I am just wierd.

I can  honestly say that  in 5 months of 100% cloth diapering, home and out, I have NEVER had a bad leak. I have had a bit of wicking or leaking around the legs when the diaper is too loose, or too full, or the material pulled the liquid out…but I have never had clothing or anything else soaked.

Trouble-shooting a leaky Diaper, particularily a pocket or AIO

I am c&ping this directly from the blog comment, since I think it might be helpful to those that end up here via google and have cloth diaper problems:

Make sure the dipes have been washed and dried, in additive free detergent, several times before using. No matter the material, this should fluff up the absorbant layers. Make sure there are no soap bubbles in the last rinse cycle. DO NOT put fabric softener (sheets or liquid) anywhere near your diapers! It can coat the fibres and make them repel instead of absorb liquid.

When putting the diaper on, ensure no gaps, and that the inner material is all tucked in and only the outer waterproof cover is exposed.

If they are well washed, seem to be a good fit, and still leeak ing…you may want to try holding them under a slow flow (not just dripping, you need some force to the water to replicate a peeing baby) of water to see where the problem is.

-If the water is rolling off the diaper instead of absorbing into it, you’ve got repelling for some reason (usually dtergent build-up or diaper cream or fabric softener on the diapers) and I would strip the diapers (wash them on hot with a couple drops of DAWN detergent, then rinse on hot until there are no bubbles left).

-If the diaper is filling then leaking, you probably need more absorbancy than your diapers offer. You can get “doublers” online, or try laying some thick soft bamboo or terry washclothes in them to increase the absorbancy. If you are using a pocket, play with adding inserts, folding long enserts differently. I find hemp/microfibre inserts to be the best. Loopydos and (at night) superdos are great.

-If they are absorbing but the water is soaking right through the waterproof layer, well, there is not much you can do but use covers over them.  I have some AIOs form independant fiaper selller that shoudl be waterproof, but just leak right through anyways. I treat them like fitteds.

Laundry

Another question I am always asked. I hate laundry, but it is not so bad. Since I love my dipes so much, it is almost….fun. Here is how I do it:

I do laundry every 1.5 to 2 days (I did a load yesterday morning, I am doing one tonight). Not a huge load, but not nothing either. That is usually about 15 diapers, which is just right. Too few is a waste of water and energy, too many and they don’t get as clean. 

I pre-set my machine: Hot soak, hot wash, cold rinse, second cold rinse. Most people use a cold soak, but I find hot soak works better for me. However, if I know there is no poop in the load (Charlotte only poos every 3rd day) I do all cold.  Still a soak, wash, rinse, extra rinse. The AIOs, fitteds and prefolds go in the dryer on medium high, as well as the inserts for pockets. The pocket shells and pul covers dry on the rack. Anything that comes out stained gets dried on a sunny window-sill (works great!). I use Purex Free dtergent, and about a 3rd of a capful, with a half scoop of oxi-clean.

Last but not least, the fun part!!!  I took pictures of my stash for a thread on a bulletin board today, and will share them here, with details (I am c&ping this directly from the board, which is a Cloth Diapering community where everyone knows that acronyms. If you look hard enough, you can figure out most of them from the information above! It is like a quiz):

The set-up. The wipes box has pre-wetted cloth wipes, with the dry wipes next to the box. Ointment is Granda El`s. There is a snappi and a couple diaper pins in the drawer (as well as 70o bibs):

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Drawer number one holds AIOs, AI2s (BG organic, Mums Buns, Drybees, Swaddlbees, Piddles Poddles), extra inserts, night-time dipes (BGs stuffed with super-dos

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Drawer number two hold covers,  fitteds, and Pre-folds. Top: Fleece longies, fleece soakers, PUL covers (2 flower patterned BSWW). Bottom: Pre-folds, fitteds (Wahm, BSRB, Bububebe, GM, Mutt) 

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Wool, I have 1 sbish soaker, the rest are Etsy wahm

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Here is my currently unused stash, in a plastic organizer:

Extra BGs. I use BGs at night, and am keeping these  for when my current ones die. Then I’ll switch to these. I may also start to use them again more when the nanny comes.

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New OS Dipes, GM and MT AIOs, to add into my rotation as needed. Also one Stacinator cover.

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New (to me) large size AIOs (snap-ez, Drybees, BGs). I am sizing up in AIOs for next year, when I go back to work. I just think it’ll be easier for the nanny than trying to deal with all my fitteds and covers…plus I want that fun for myself! If I don’t have enough AIOs for her, I’ll add in some of my saved BG 3.0s.

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What’s missing:

I have some MT and Thirsties AIOs in the laundry and pail, as well as 2 MT  AIOs, and  2 Mutt AI2s in my diaper bag and 4 MT AIOs in my  emergencycar-stash. I think there is also a GM in the pail. And last nights BG and superdo.

Cranky-pants on on the way! Also some Large Swaddlebees AIOS from Swap. 

Phew, almost done here.

I know, I know…huge stash. I will say 2 things though

1) I use it all, except the unused stuff I am saving and will use

2) 75% of it was bought pre-loved, at very good prices.  I have also sold whatever I do not and likely will not use. This all has good re-sale value if I take care of it, which I do.

OK, this is way too long to edit. Deal with the typos, and feel free to ask any questions.

 

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